Aspect of Love

So I was watching SATC the movie, and something hit me. Samantha is right. She questions Smith by saying, What is love? Is it saying your name fifty times more than I say my own? Because if that is it then we are all doomed. We all become so preoccupied with the aspect of love, we forget what we are losing. Ourselves. The one person that knows all our flaws. Samantha also says that while she loves him, she loves herself more. That is so empowering. A girl who doesn't need a man to define her. It's pretty spectacular to be completely honest. It seems as if everything going on in a woman's head these days is how she is going to score her next lover. What has this world come to? I feel like the only woman in the 21st century who doesn't need a man to define me. I am perfectly ok with my life. It could be better, but it's my life. It may become lonely. But to hell with them. I may love you, but I love myself more. End of story.